If you’re drawn to this article title, you’re not alone. Many partners have lurking doubts and questions about whether their woman is still interested in them or ever really was in the first place.
Sometimes, even the most committed relationships experience these fleeting fears. When these doubts persist, though, there could be a problem.
If you’re fearing the worst, here are some signs that your girl isn’t interested.
She Isn’t Laughing
This may sound superficial and it’s understandable why you may think so. But it goes deeper than that.
If your woman isn’t into you, she won’t find you funny anymore. She might not even smile when you do things that most others would find funny. These are signs that something could wrong.
It could be that the benefit scale of continuing the relationship is tipping the opposite way from what you want.
You may be doing everything right and treating her like a queen but that may not be enough. The mysterious chemistry of love just isn’t there.
If she doesn’t feel better with you, then she likely won’t be with you for long.
Lots of Excuses
If your girl is busy every time you ask to hang out, this is a tell-tale sign she’s not interested. There are exceptions but few.
Some exceptions may be that your woman is going through a short burst of busyness such as studying for finals, overwhelmed by her job or feeling depressed. She still may love you but is just maxed out.
Most of the time, though, if there are constant excuses why she can’t get together, that’s a not-so-subtle hint. If she was interested, she’d make time for you. In fact, she wouldn’t be able to help herself.
Some women will let you know very clearly if they’re not interested. Others won’t. They’re afraid to hurt your feelings so they make excuses to avoid time with you instead of being direct.
Your girl may need to vacuum her car, go shopping alone (again) or visit a family member she has never mentioned before.
The excuse possibilities are endless but one thing remains the same–She does her best to avoid you because she’s not into you anymore. The opposite would be true if your woman was interested
Trust Your Gut
Most of the time, you instinctively know there’s a problem before your “come-to-Jesus moment”.
As difficult as this realization is, it’s the best thing in the long run. If you get serious with the woman of your dreams but you’re not the one she dreams about, things will be miserable.
If you’re still unsure where your woman stands, work up the guts to come out and ask her. You can also ask your closest friends and family about what’s they’ve observed.
If your woman’s not into you, there is someone out there who will find you irresistible. It’s not the end of the road. Instead, it’s the beginning of a new and better road. If it is time for you to schedule your couples counseling appointment online using our online scheduling tool, call us at (949) 393-8662, or text us.